Who is Man, Who is Woman? Are We Not One?
- Niki
- Aug 30, 2017
- 3 min read
Hey guys, Hope You all had a wonderful and constructive week and Wish you all a happy weekend!
I am back! And this time with an interesting rather Intense topic to discuss which I have tried to depict through fashion - Why girls who act less feminine are named as Tom Boy? Do you have an answer? Well even i don't have the answer.
I used to think why do we call them TOM BOY? So thought to write this blog to express my view point on this.
I don't understand why people define a women or a girl who is less girly or who is strong headed or knows how to take care of her self or who comfortably dresses up in jeans and jacket and cap as a "Tom boy", Such "Naming" which ties our look with the personality of the other gender and creates gender divide within the society, which undermines the very principle of feminism. No one has the right to tie up our looks, style and personality with gender, and without saying it also goes to support the men & transgenders who sport ear piercing, tattoos, long-hair styles, waxing etc.

We women have the power to go to extreme ends and still conquer the world, when a woman dress up in Bold Styles, either way we are judged by people as not straight or with accusations of trying to act like a Man/Boy. Why can't we be seen Equal? That's what feminism is all about. Equality.
My question is why are we judged or compared aren't we one - "Humans"?
Therefore... Why can't we just be called a "TOM WOMAN" :D. We are been let down indirectly by saying Tom Boy that means if we do something brave or strong or dress up rough we are like a "Man". So are we weak??
I don't think so! Not at all.
A woman is way stronger then she looks (just to clarify Looks = fragile compared to Men). Be it physical or mental, women are strong enough and reaching heights as we speak.

Well TOM WOMAN is an Interesting Name isn't it? Women are blessed to express themselves through fashion in whatever way she likes, she can carry herself in any outfit or style , a women who is fragile from outside but mind you she is way stronger from inside and that's why she is the most beautiful creation of God.
I tried to showcase a Women in my outfit, who is strong headed, yet carry her innocent & charm, she wears what makes her comfortable yet maintain her feminism side.
My Look (Outfit)- A women who dresses up in rugged jeans, with a lose baggy jacket and a cap , yet maintaining the feminism in her by wearing stiletto's.
The Green Jacket -Khaki Look is so classy and smart makes one feel so trendy. Its has mid waist length can be worn on denims, shorts, or even skirt . One can open the jacket and wear a tee below to give it a different look.
Rugged Black Denim - Mid rise faddy Black denims, which is perfectly rugged and super comfortable,Can be worn Any day & Any time.
Cap - Leather feel Unisex cap , looks so trendy and classy . Can be worn with any casual outfit to enhance your complete look.
Stilettos - They are one comfy pair of heels, can be worn on any occasion.





"YES I AM A FEMINIST. AND NO, I DON'T HATE MEN".
My look :
Jeans (Denim) - Zara store - Kuwait (Middle east)
Jacket - H&M - India (Chennai)
Watch - MK - Michael Kors - Kuwait (Middle east)
Shoes - PayLess - Kuwait (Middle east)
Cap - H&M - India (Chennai)
Hair & Makeup - By me.
What is your thought on this? Share your views on my email id - nikita@lacira.com
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Chao until next time! God bless you All :)
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